Ruining of this teen girl's life.
I am always surprised and disgusted at the same time when I hear or learn of what another person has done to one of our teen's to ruin their lives. This young girl was duped by someone whom was supposed to be a loving part of the family. A 20 year old boy with no conscious. A narcissus who has no caring thought as to ruining someone's life. And shame on the police officer(s) who heard this young ladies plight & turned her away. Shame on the Emergency Dept crew who neglected this girl by not providing a rape kit for evidence. Counseling to reassure here she is not the one at fault but the VICTIM! HER RIGHTS were violated for the sake of the perpetrators. (notice perpetrators is plural!)
How is it & why is it this keeps happening in our so called, 'Civil' society and it happens every day and we point our fingers at the victim. We drop the ball so we don't have to see such horrific sights with our own two eyes.
VP- to your daughter....I apologize for every single embarrassing moment she has gone through. I apologize for all the horrible, unspeakable things she has undertaken, had done to and I apologize for the system letting her down. There is no excuse for any of this type of behavior to be brought upon her.
VP-I know being a parent is the hardest role in life God has given anyone. No matter what we do, we live with our guilt. Perhaps, if we had done it this way things may have been different....perhaps not. Maybe if we had done this things might be different...maybe not. It doesn't matter. We ourselves re not perfect and never will be. I know what I have done and wish I could go back so many years....maybe....maybe not.
Teens...if we parents could take every single ounce of pain you've had to carry away from you, we most definitely would. If we could take back every ounce of pain we have personally given you...we most definitely would do that as well.
God Bless...VP and her daughter...I hope your pain lightens as you both deserve a happy life.
Posted by endingteenviolence.com at 11/27/2010 8:25 AM 
Categories: dating abuse, teen abuse, ending teen violence, Woman killed in domestic shooting believed suspect was stalking her
Categories: dating abuse, teen abuse, ending teen violence, Woman killed in domestic shooting believed suspect was stalking her
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